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Post by LiLisAnAngel on Sept 17, 2003 23:20:07 GMT -5
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Post by LiLisAnAngel on Sept 17, 2003 23:31:25 GMT -5
Oh my god...I just figured out why... I kept bugging him until he told me, and he just looks at me and was like "I'm just a jealous person ok? I've liked u for a long time now....Until I get over it, I won't talk to you. I never said I won't talk to u again, i just said for now I won't. I told u before, ur bf has something I can't have," and then just ..left... I was just standing there, knowing I can't do ANYTHING about that...knowing nothing i could say could change his mind, even tho hes a good friend, i cant walk away from someone I love...plus he walked away from me, not the other way around....i dunno wen he'll ever talk to me again... WOW I'm so not used to guys liking me this is just too...weird... I wish he didn't cuz then I'd have my friend still... I just hope he'll talk to me soon, even tho I know it won't be soon.... I wish i could do something! I just want to SCREAAAAAAAAM !! >.<
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Post by LuvLiyah4life on Sept 18, 2003 4:48:07 GMT -5
then scream, Cassie.. I know how you feel.. I have this friend, and I love him to death, the problem is, he is in love with me.. I mean.. really in love with me.. He has been that for years now.. And it's really hard for me.. I feel bad.. Like it's my fault or something.. Not to sound like a bitch, but there has/is been many guys that's been/is in love with me, but not as...hmm... difficult as this guy... I don't know why.. Maybe I care more for him than the other guys... And.. he is that sort of guy I could fall in love with.. But I wont.. So.. all you have to do is try and understand, and let time heal him..If they are strong, it's gonna take a while, but.. it will be okay, Cassie... I'm sure it will... *warm hug*
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Post by LiLisAnAngel on Sept 18, 2003 9:08:08 GMT -5
then scream, Cassie.. I know how you feel.. I have this friend, and I love him to death, the problem is, he is in love with me.. I mean.. really in love with me.. He has been that for years now.. And it's really hard for me.. I feel bad.. Like it's my fault or something.. Not to sound like a bitch, but there has/is been many guys that's been/is in love with me, but not as...hmm... difficult as this guy... I don't know why.. Maybe I care more for him than the other guys... And.. he is that sort of guy I could fall in love with.. But I wont.. So.. all you have to do is try and understand, and let time heal him..If they are strong, it's gonna take a while, but.. it will be okay, Cassie... I'm sure it will... *warm hug* thanks..*warm hug* I'm just gonna miss him so much he was a really good friend and we always went places together...but he is the type of guy I could fall in love with too and I did before but he didn't feel the same and after i moved on, and then now he tells me he did feel the same...I didn't let myself like him again cuz I have the guy i've wanted for 3 damn years now lol I just hope we can talk again soon cuz its so much harder without him being there as my friend..
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Post by ADH7901 on Sept 18, 2003 9:17:17 GMT -5
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Post by LuvLiyah4life on Sept 18, 2003 9:33:09 GMT -5
thanks..*warm hug* I'm just gonna miss him so much he was a really good friend and we always went places together...but he is the type of guy I could fall in love with too and I did before but he didn't feel the same and after i moved on, and then now he tells me he did feel the same...I didn't let myself like him again cuz I have the guy i've wanted for 3 damn years now lol I just hope we can talk again soon cuz its so much harder without him being there as my friend.. time will heal, Cass.. Just.. try and leave him alone, let him figure out himself, and.. You know... He will be your friend again, sweetie...
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Post by BebeGurl1 on Sept 18, 2003 17:56:53 GMT -5
I'm sorry to hear about this!!! *hugs* I hope you can get this sorted out...it must be a hard situation
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Post by Krissy2003 on Sept 18, 2003 18:12:10 GMT -5
Aww Im So Sorry Hun! Ive had a guy be that way over me. We were like best friends for 5 years, then out of no where he says he loves me and always has and wishes he could be mine. I told him that i would rather be friends for now and i gave him his space and he gave me mine. It still doesnt feel the same when im Wit Him because i always have it in the back of my head that her feels different about me than i Feel about him. Loosing a Friend is horrible Me and my absolute best friend in the whole world are fading by the second.. its horible. Ive been depressed. But i make myself fight thru it. We will eventually be as tight as we were before but if not.. if not i dont know what im going to do without her
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Post by LiLisAnAngel on Sept 18, 2003 19:22:27 GMT -5
Aww Im So Sorry Hun! Ive had a guy be that way over me. We were like best friends for 5 years, then out of no where he says he loves me and always has and wishes he could be mine. I told him that i would rather be friends for now and i gave him his space and he gave me mine. It still doesnt feel the same when im Wit Him because i always have it in the back of my head that her feels different about me than i Feel about him. Loosing a Friend is horrible Me and my absolute best friend in the whole world are fading by the second.. its horible. Ive been depressed. But i make myself fight thru it. We will eventually be as tight as we were before but if not.. if not i dont know what im going to do without her Oh man thats just like us, 4-5 years, and out of no where "ur bf has something i cant have ...im in love with u" or watever... I know wat its like to lose a best friend too...me and my best friend for 10 years just faded this summer too i know exacly how that is...she changed and we aren't friends. Its so hard for me cuz she was my sister, or like a sister, then out of no where shes doing a shit load of drugs. She calls me going "maaaaan im sooo stoned...." that and moving around with guys, she moved out of her house, her dad is dying and weak so he can't do anything really, and shes moving in and out of places... Rere--thanks hunn..ya it is a hard situation.. Annlen---I am giving him his space--but i doubt we'll be friends again. ADH--LOL it's okay, im glad u CAN'T relate. No one should go thru any pain. *hugz* You don't have to do anything. knowing ur my friend is all the comfort i need
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Post by Krissy2003 on Sept 18, 2003 19:52:35 GMT -5
^ yup that exactly what Krista is doin...she is now a drug dealer too..shes always drinkin.. drugs..i swear she does like ever drug out there. shes offered me pills like X and some otha sh!t but i never accept..its ending soon. B4 we used to tell eachother everything. now shes keeping things from me and shes also sleepin around a lot..shes says "o i cant remember doin that! I was stoned" Arg im so upset
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Post by LiLisAnAngel on Sept 18, 2003 20:01:59 GMT -5
^ yup that exactly what Krista is doin...she is now a drug dealer too..shes always drinkin.. drugs..i swear she does like ever drug out there. shes offered me pills like X and some otha sh!t but i never accept..its ending soon. B4 we used to tell eachother everything. now shes keeping things from me and shes also sleepin around a lot..shes says "o i cant remember doin that! I was stoned" Arg im so upset i know! my friend even has a baby now....we are talking on the phone right now
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Post by Krissy2003 on Sept 18, 2003 20:12:06 GMT -5
Aww thats good ur talking to her.. A Baby? How old is she?
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Post by LuvLiyah4life on Sept 19, 2003 2:35:04 GMT -5
Oh man thats just like us, 4-5 years, and out of no where "ur bf has something i cant have ...im in love with u" or watever... I know wat its like to lose a best friend too...me and my best friend for 10 years just faded this summer too i know exacly how that is...she changed and we aren't friends. Its so hard for me cuz she was my sister, or like a sister, then out of no where shes doing a shit load of drugs. She calls me going "maaaaan im sooo stoned...." that and moving around with guys, she moved out of her house, her dad is dying and weak so he can't do anything really, and shes moving in and out of places... Rere--thanks hunn..ya it is a hard situation.. Annlen---I am giving him his space--but i doubt we'll be friends again. ADH--LOL it's okay, im glad u CAN'T relate. No one should go thru any pain. *hugz* You don't have to do anything. knowing ur my friend is all the comfort i need awww... Try and think that things happends for a reason.. I know how hard it is... I love you, Cassie, stay strong!
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Post by LiLisAnAngel on Sept 19, 2003 9:33:38 GMT -5
Aww thats good ur talking to her.. A Baby? How old is she? Shes 15...she doesn't believe in abortion and she said it was her mistake to go to the party so shes dealing with the consequences. She says no matter how young she is, she loves her baby so much. every other girl here goes for an abortion and I think thats wrong. Annlen--Thank you so much, i dunno wat I'd do without u. I love u too! *hugz*
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Post by LuvLiyah4life on Sept 19, 2003 9:37:27 GMT -5
Shes 15...she doesn't believe in abortion and she said it was her mistake to go to the party so shes dealing with the consequences. She says no matter how young she is, she loves her baby so much. every other girl here goes for an abortion and I think thats wrong. Annlen--Thank you so much, i dunno wat I'd do without u. I love u too! *hugz* sweetie... You don't have to worry abou that.. I'll be here.. always.. *hugs*
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